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Default Actions speak louder than words or words speak louder than feelings?
I would like to ask humbly, the views of members on following statement.

Is it actions speak louder than words or words speak louder than feelings?

Further, i hope mods will let this thread continue and participate too in the sharing.

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Actions speak louder than words.
And feelings shouldn't be spoken at all. Theres no market for them. :) They are yours exclusively.
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Actions speak louder than words.
And feelings shouldn't be spoken at all. Theres no market for them. They are yours exclusively.
agreed that actions speak louder than words, but what i wanted to ask is related to feelings. Sometimes, we speak meaningfully and those with understanding of similar feelings can comprehend from the words spoken and the way they are spoken.
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agreed that actions speak louder than words, but what i wanted to ask is related to feelings. Sometimes, we speak meaningfully and those with understanding of similar feelings can comprehend from the words spoken and the way they are spoken.
"those with understanding of similar feelings" are nowhere to be found.
One had better not assume someone would understand. And even if by pure good luck you get to find someone who understands they wont listen for long. Would either get fed up or start judging you.
Feelings are better kept to oneself.
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"those with understanding of similar feelings" are nowhere to be found.
One had better not assume someone would understand. And even if by pure good luck you get to find someone who understands they wont listen for long. Would either get fed up or start judging you.
Feelings are better kept to oneself.
This is not the problem in actuality. People with similar comprehension and similar feelings are still existent as a result of which we enjoy existence of the world. The degree of intensity is required for eternity of this understanding and acceptance. Feelings must be expressed or they should not be developed.
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Feelings are not spoken, they are felt........... Feelings don't need any expression.
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Feelings are not spoken, they are felt........... Feelings don't need any expression.
Without saying a word, feelings are felt with equal intensity only when frequencies are matched; and that is a rare thing. Many a times we do need to express when required.
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Without saying a word, feelings are felt with equal intensity only when frequencies are matched; and that is a rare thing. Many a times we do need to express when required.
though it is hard to contradict, sometimes in the presence of matched frequencies expression is essential. Kuynk anjan baninay main bhe apna maza hai (said by some literary angel)
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though it is hard to contradict, sometimes in the presence of matched frequencies expression is essential. Kuynk anjan baninay main bhe apna maza hai (said by some literary angel)
My reply was about "feelings should be felt". I agree it is essential to express even in the presence of matched frequencies. Tajdeed hoti rehti hai. Dont listen to literary angels. They are often misleading.
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My reply was about "feelings should be felt". I agree it is essential to express even in the presence of matched frequencies. Tajdeed hoti rehti hai. Dont listen to literary angels. They are often misleading.
This tajdid again emphasizes the fact of expressing feelings most of the time. Sometimes, people become so oblivious intentionally or unintentionally that it becomes mandatory to make them feel presence of these feelings otherwise time once lost can never be regained. Then should literary angels stop making such comments as they are misleading? But i do think such comments by literary angels imply expression of feelings.
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