I have a family friend who,s been to every part of Pakistan.knows "too many" people [trust me].I told him that I have been planning for css since I was 14 year old.and im really serious about it and im gonna do it after my B.A.
suddenly he started loughing at me and said 'there,s no way u can get in job specially like foreign service without sifarish.dont do it.now I come from a NOT POOR but family that has limited means.i don't have anybody sincere exept my mother.my dad died when I was 5.
and trust me..while I m writing this ,I m crying.cause I know many of u will say that "css is not the end of the world
but for me IT IS.i have tried everything else.its either this or nothing.please help me.i really need it

dear don'n concentrate over anybody's selfish advice, we can what ever we want. Be sincere and spritual to your goal. . .God bless u. . .

Dear Sara,

Don't lose hope and heart and don't cry. Ok we agree that CSS is the end of world for you so go ahead ... give your best, work hard, study 16hours a day follow all instructions. Practice writing. Writing and getting it checked over and over again will make you perfect. Excel so much that no-one can betray you or side-line you.

Don't lose hope just put your best

Do your best as you can and Allah will give you reward for your hardship so be prepare for CSS and don't ever listen others for their stupid advices. Whatever Allah Almighty plan for us we will have that no matter what happen when Allah wants to give us something so no one can stop him and if Allah don't want to give us anything so no one can give us that. Concentrate on your goal and you will achieve it. May Allah Almighty help you Ameen.

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you made me cry really, don't concentrate on rumors work hard, i am sure you will be succeed inshaAllah. Jiska koi sahara na ho uska duniya ka sab se bara sahara hai wo hai khuda.

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@Sara

I know many who are allocated in FSP without any reference. This is possible, very much possible. You need to work really hard to get yourself on the top of the merit list. After that, nothing can keep you away from FSP.

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Originally Posted by saraforpakistan I have a family friend who,s been to every part of Pakistan.knows "too many" people [trust me].I told him that I have been planning for css since I was 14 year old.and im really serious about it and im gonna do it after my B.A. suddenly he started loughing at me and said 'there,s no way u can get in job specially like foreign service without sifarish.dont do it.now I come from a NOT POOR but family that has limited means.i don't have anybody sincere exept my mother.my dad died when I was 5. and trust me..while I m writing this ,I m crying.cause I know many of u will say that "css is not the end of the world but for me IT IS.i have tried everything else.its either this or nothing.please help me.i really need it

You have been misinformed by your friend. Its your score that could take you towards your desired group, nothing else. Turn a blind eye & deaf ear to these false rumormongers.

Don't cry; Just remember one thing that It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure. Be painstaking & focused.

Good Luck!

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My dear sister i heard soemthing bitter than what you have heard, many of the people around me discouraged me that you will surely need sifarish in the stage of intervies, for time being i got really upset, but then i just forgot about whatever they said, now what is the reason? the reason is Allah has given me a life so should i stop struggling for everything? because nowadays no one seems to be sincere, whenever you follow a path to success you will surely find some people discouraging you and saying that you need on sifarish, so just because they have said this, should i stop working harder to achieve mmy goal? No way... One question from you, do tried on CSS at least once? have you found any kind of Sifarish in CSS by yourself? your answer must be no... then why don't you try yourself to know about the reality??? Sister don't worry about what people say, just listen to your heart and go on, pray for yourself and Trust in the Almighty Allah.....
Take care

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sara i have same problem.dont worry sis

@Sara Sister
Try your best and study hard and do what ever you can and after that all leave to Allah Subhana o Tallah he will sure give you what is better for you.
Once when i was applying for ISSB one of the solider at the recruitment center advised me
"If Allah Subhana o Tallah has written in your taqdeer that you will get a job in Pak Army no one can "STOP" you or "NOT RECOMMAND" you and else no one can give you a job So Believe in Allah and try your best.