[QUOTE=jindshahwani;655353]You're absolutely right SIR,being an MBA student I don't have any issue of confidance as you said that jerking legs etc.

The problem with me is that...
For example my father use to say that I'll make my family proud one day but I always used to ask my self how I can do this,I'm not that much able but when I was receiving my gold medal from Governor Balochistan Zulfiqar Magsi I said to myself Yes,I did it...

Now how can I overcome this issue, that is confidence, the self confidance which I dont have on my own self...

You said that you spent all your day in shopping and on the other day you were having essay paper.
Want to be like you...

I still remember on 22nd of february I was solving past year essay papers till 03:30 am... because I was having paper on 23rd. I'm a book worm you can say but now I don't want to be,I want to enjoy my life.

I think now you will understand my problem and suggest me ways to tackle this...
Thanks[/QUOTE]

Oh, now i got you..
let me tell you, when your beloved ones expect a lot from you then you experience something which i call "FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN"
and this fear makes you lose confidence, right?

hehehe.. well this is very basic human nature and absolutely normal :)
and guess what, the good thing is, if you are really going through these feelings then
1. you are a humble person, and not proud type,
2. you value relations
that's great ;)

now, simple solutions,

1. the best way to overcome any fear is imagine the worst case scenario.
what will happen if the worst occurs?? let me tell you, whatever befalls you, the life will go on and you wont die. and even if you die, then what would matter to you? nothing!
so, relax.
if you have made up your mind for the 'worst', the 'bad' wont hurt you badly ;)

summarily, "DO YOUR BEST, BUT EXPECT THE LEAST"

2. science has proved that taking a good nap after studies and before an exam, is better than the otherwise, because when you sleep, your brain assembles whatever you have studied, sort it out and save them in respective sections of memory. pithily, your brain consolidates your knowledge when you sleep. Even in China/Japan, school teachers in some schools allow their students to sleep on their tables for a short time after a few lectures.
So, take a good nap for good attempt, don't waste your sleep time just because of clumsy tension.
What you did, is already done :)

3. Have faith not on your abilities, but on Allah. because sometimes you need it very very badly.

Let me share with you my experience,
On the night before british history paper i was not feeling well. i decided to revise both parts till 3 am and then sleep till Fajar. but my revision was very very slow and till 3 am i had revised only 20% of part 1, so it was practically impossible for me to revise both parts even if i had studied till 9am. at that time it was like an alien subject for me, i was sweating badly and i was about to experience mental breakdown. then i made up my mind for the worst case scenario. i was mentally prepared to get failed and try again in my next attempt. having this thought in my mind i defeated all my tensions and then i slept at 3:15 am. at Fajar time, i woke up and after the prayers i selectively revised 7 topics from part 1, keeping faith on Allah i entered examination hall. you wont believe all the questions came from what i had revised after Fajar. :))
my part1 paper went super awesome. but now i had still to face part2, from which i had not revised even a single topic. so, in that 2 hours break i offered Zohar and selectively studied 5 topics. hahahaha.. i still remember i had book in my hands, i was walking from masjid to examination hall in last 5 minutes while revising my 5th and last topic.
You wont believe, the miracle happened again... i was like flying in the heavens :)
both the parts went super duper. the subject for which i was mentally prepared to drop, was the same subject which i attempted better than any other :)
I remember, when i left exam center, i was sooooo happy that i did not even bother to hire a rikshaw... i walked all my way from Wahdat Road to Barkat market (around 50 minutes walk).. :)

My dear, if you rank all the candidates of CSS 2012 which were 10,054 in number according to their hardwork, you will find me in among the last 54 candidates. i just worked smartly, did not feel tensed throughout my studies, kept faith on Allah, and was mentally prepared for the worst. and God gifted me my favourite group in my first attempt :)

Tension is good, it motivates you to get to work, but too much tension is deadly :)

Happy-go-lucky :)

am talkind about your EDS book :(
I really need this

[QUOTE=amnakhan;655386]am talkind about your EDS book :(
I really need this[/QUOTE]

Hmm.. okay,
i have chalked out a plan..
i have a scanner, but it needs a bit repair work,
i will try my best to get it fixed as soon an possible, then i will scan my all EDS notes and upload it somewhere, or email you. okay... :pipe:pipe

reading your allposts from page 1 to page 11, am thinking what a humble and blessed kind of person you are.
The thing which forced me to smile for the first time on any post in this forum was your tricky method of quotes and poems.
You know i did it even i was giving my FSC papers, i uesd to forgot these stuff and usually get the bad marks in urdu as compared to others.
Then i made this trick for me and while attempting TASHREE i used to write kisi Shaer ny kia Khoob kha hy and instantly made my own :p
So while reading these post i encountered that css too needs this :p

[QUOTE=Werewolf;655396]Hmm.. okay,
i have chalked out a plan..
i have a scanner, but it needs a bit repair work,
i will try my best to get it fixed as soon an possible, then i will scan my all EDS notes and upload it somewhere, or email you. okay... :pipe:pipe[/QUOTE]
that would be seriously so nice of you.
I really needs them.
I will wait for the upload.
Thanks allot

[QUOTE=amnakhan;655400]reading your allposts from page 1 to page 11, am thinking what a humble and blessed kind of person you are.
The thing which forced me to smile for the first time on any post in this forum was your tricky method of quotes and poems.
You know i did it even i was giving my FSC papers, i uesd to forgot these stuff and usually get the bad marks in urdu as compared to others.
Then i made this trick for me and while attempting TASHREE i used to write kisi Shaer ny kia Khoob kha hy and instantly made my own :p
So while reading these post i encountered that css too needs this :p[/QUOTE]

hahaha.. yeah, actually a common thing in FSC papers and CSS papers is that, examiners are all human beings. so its easy to trick a human if you know how to do it :)
moreover, "YOU ARE INNOCENT, UNTIL YOU ARE CAUGHT" ;)

[QUOTE=Werewolf;655406]hahaha.. yeah, actually a common thing in FSC papers and CSS papers is that, examiners are all human beings. so its easy to trick a human if you know how to do it :)
moreover, "YOU ARE INNOCENT, UNTIL YOU ARE CAUGHT" ;)[/QUOTE]

I need to ask something about css.
Am sure you will guide me better.
Am having an engineering background and am going with
Indo Pak
Geo
and
Pshychology
Right should i????:thinking:thinking:thinking

Sir,
My query is about the 'recommended' tree method (in your posts):
I tried to understand and resolve it through internet searching but could not understand,
please brief us about it by giving an example, please.
and how the scattered thoughts in one's mind about the attempted question be put in sequence..

[QUOTE=Qasim Mahmood;655413]Sir,
My query is about the 'recommended' tree method (in your posts):
I tried to understand and resolve it through internet searching but could not understand,
please brief us about it by giving an example, please.
and how the scattered thoughts in one's mind about the attempted question be put in sequence..[/QUOTE]

in my post number 47, page 5, i have elaborated the TREE DIAGRAM RULE. have you read that? :thinking

[QUOTE=Werewolf;655406]hahaha.. yeah, actually a common thing in FSC papers and CSS papers is that, examiners are all human beings. so its easy to trick a human if you know how to do it :)
moreover, "YOU ARE INNOCENT, UNTIL YOU ARE CAUGHT" ;)[/QUOTE]

Your quote make me confused.
Is it a warnning for that trick in css :thinking

[QUOTE=amnakhan;655420]Your quote make me confused.
Is it a warnning for that trick in css :thinking[/QUOTE]

nah nah.. its not warning,
hahahaha..
believe me i have written that quote only after pasting a full evil smile of my face :evil