Have u heard this Hadith k Rizq insaan ko is trah talash krta jesay k mout. We should also work hard and struggle for livelihood. But after marriage female brings her own fate and the new born baby his own. Allah says that he is responsible for livelihood of every living being. If you fear that marriage in early age will create some trouble than its not true. When you take first step then Allah will definitely guide you through the whole path. At the time of Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him), people usually married in early ages despite of their low income power. But they all lived happily.

I meant all vices which are being practiced in society,the word ETC refers to those points which i didn't want to write openly.I think people are wise enough to understand what is being asked.

Government can impliment some laws which may lessen the expenditures and marriage may not remain a complex thing.Government is responsible to MAINTAIN ORDER AND REGULARITY so everything includes in it.

Pardon me Why are you showing typical mentality,attacking a thread starter itself?The discussion is meant to learn from others.Discussion and argument is not for WHO IS RIGHT rather it is for WHAT IS RIGHT.
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Indeed thought proviking topic set for discussion and needs brain storming to solve this quagmire.

I am of the opinion that early marriage is not solution to the problems and it aggravate frustration, divorce rates and social anarchy. Reason being that the incumbents have not attained the mentality and maturity to lead a family life and respect the institution of marriage effectively. While late marriages results in other kinds of problems like generation gap and voilance and abuse of females. Then to where does the solution lie. I believe that solution lies in understanding and raising the moral values of our society. Our education syllabus is void of all kinds of social problems which we are facing. Neither our islamiat course till matriculation fully elaborate the concept of zana, its islamic standing, its punishment in this world and in the hereafter. I fully believe that if we starts educating our youth on real grounds and teach them islamic values and ethics they will themselves refrain from such activities.

We should focus on character building rather than providing short term solutions like government enforcement, early of late marriages which both have its advantages.

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A very solid solution you presented Sir,I appreciate
For me it is Conclusion of this discussion!

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Dear,justify your argument after going through given statistics. I regret,our young generation is still not realsitic.

Each year, 15 million children die of hunger-related causes. This means that, every day, throughout the world, 40 000 children die. The loss of human life is as great as if an atomic bomb - similar to the one that destroyed Hiroshima during the Second World War - were to be dropped on a densely populated area every three days.

Some sources estimate that 20 million people die each year of hunger-related causes. FAO estimates that at least 435 million people are seriously undernourished in the world today. Other estimates, which use poverty as an indicator, suggest that 800 million people are threatened by hunger, either temporarily or in the long term.

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All above mentioned syllabus is taught in Madrassas, is their character role model for rest of nation?

Some Facts:

Let us read the story step by step. The news initially was reported by BBC News, Islamabad on Friday, 10 December, 2004 is as follows:

A Pakistani minister has revealed hundreds of cases of alleged child sex abuse at Islamic schools, or madrassas.
There were 500 complaints this year of abuse allegedly committed by clerics, Aamer Liaquat Hussain, a minister in the religious affairs department, said. That compares with 2,000 last year, but as yet there have been no successful prosecutions, Mr. Hussain told the BBC.

The minister's revelations have sparked death threats and infuriated some religious political leaders. Mr. Hussain said he had received death threats from clerics, but that he had done his job and his conscience was clear.

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If he/she can suppport girl friends/boy friends why not the legal spouse.


Arain007 has answered this perfectly.


Yeah please draw it.

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dear bro n sis AOA .in my observation solution of these problem is marriage should be at proper age .but can marriage controles these crimes ? many person who are so called educated n appointed on high posts n married having young daughters commit adultery.why.they have lack of religious knowledge they do not say prayer not observe fast.but who are hafiz n say prayer n teach Quran to childern in mosque but thy also could not referain themselves n childern become their victim .i think obscene movies ,magzines ,sms websites provoke them . if we become true muslim say sincerely prayer keep fast n keep PARDA OF OUR EYES .HEAR ,TONGUE ALL other limbs ,act upon sunnah of holy prophet we will be successful here n here after.regards

wrong assumption...
1.not all the pakistani youth have boyfriends/girlfriends
2.not all the pakistanis having boyfriend/girlfriends support each other
3.not all those who support live under the same roof
4.supporting boyfriend/girlfriend is aother thing,living under the same roof with your respected wife is another thing...not a reasonable comparison..


what you have said may hold good on may be 1% of youth
pakistanz population=65%under 25

moreover buying your girlfriend expensive clothes,giving gifts, etc etc is not supporting her

invincible has also replied to arain007 perfectly

(keh k phans geya ma to)



a person not educated,not able to support his family due to economic costraint,not mature enough if married....what are u going to expect from him towards society and your country?
the time of our PROPHET(SAAWW) was a different time...comparing this time with that(as has doneby arain007) would mean living in a foolz paradize(as said by some friend of mine)...family system was different and a lot of other factors etc

baqi dost picture phir kabhi draw kar don ga,abhi k liye is say he guzara kar lain

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If you observe realistically you will see that 50 to 60% does posses a friend or friends from the opposite sex so if they can manage this then managing one's spouse is much easier.


Our society is already on turmoil and this is happening due to our denial to act upon the golden rules of islam. This era is not comparable with that one just because of we have forgotten the teachings of islam.

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Thats not rite, you cannot blend the two in the same thing, there is a difference in a sinister and criminal of law.

Now this is completely absurd. If government is not enacting laws, Islam has done so. Pakistanis take pride in placing Islam before Pakistan. The matter is, they are following neither Islamic nor Governmental laws. Expenditures are not complicating the marriage, it is high urbanization of society. Urbanized people are not clamped together by a blood line, or clan line, like old timed people, and hence they think of life in isolated terms. High levels of belief in providence and Allah dwindle when people become more urbanized. Just look around, you will see the difference in rural people and urban people, and when they get married. And I was not attacking, I was just giving my point of view in a sarcastic way.

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