ASk God !! What you deserve for, not what you desire for. you may Deserve more than what you desire for.

- please have your: Comments/critics with logical reasoning in both worldly and in islamic context.

God can grant you everything and even my personal experience shows (and I think most of you people would also have realised this) that what I want dearly at one stage of life looks so meaningless and even harmful after some time has elapsed! This is because we don't know what is IMPORTANT in the 'bigger picture' of life unles we have a time machine in which we go to future and return back with the advantage of hindsight We can ask God for what is best for us. Asking for what we deserve is a good option too but certainly not what we DESIRE! As far as achieving short term goals, we should ask God for assistance, otherwise failure would be sure waiting for us... But asking God for what we desire cannot be a good prayer.

We should try our best, give it a 100% and call on to God for making those efforts useful!

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Smyler wyth nyfe undur the cloke

Salamz
its not measureable fact that u deserve more then u get.
God has bestowed Hiss Men what are right 4 them. because He loves His men greater then 70 mothers. So, its a obligation on us that we may praise and just beg form His ever and great mercy.

At the end i will claim i am not deserving what my Allah has give me. He is great Giver. I cannot fulfill the colum of thanks for Him.

Well one should leave this to God that what He has to give us or not. But one should always pray to God for fullfilment his/her desires. Thats all.

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The world is my oyster!

First deserve then desire. In my opinion we don’t deserve, even what we desire for. It is our Almighty God who always bestow us more than what we deserve. ALLAH gives and forgets and Man gets and Forgets.

We receive his blessings each and every day, but we never try to thank him. Here is a small moral story. I will be obliged to share it with you.

There was a beggar. One day an Angel in guise of human being came to him and asked him, if I will give u a camel would you stop begging. They man replied of course I will leave begging and thank to Almighty Allah for his blessing. The Angel gave him camel and left.

Next day the Angel met another bankrupt person. The angel asked him if I give u a sheep. The man said I would be thankful to Almighty Allah for his blessing. The angel gave him a sheep and left.

On the third day the Angel met an other poor fellow, and asked him if I give u a goat then what would u do. The man said I would be thankful to Almighty Allah for his blessing. The angel gave him a goat and left.

After couple of years the Angel returned in disguise. 1st he went to beggar and asked him will u please give a camel in the name of ALLAH. The beggar who was now a rich person and had dozens of camels, refused to give him a camel. Then the angel revealed upon him that u doesn’t deserve for the blessing of Allah and snatched him every thing he had. Now the person became beggar again.

The angel came to bankrupt person and asked him that ALLAH has bestowed u with herds of sheep will u please give me a sheep in the name of ALLAH. The bankrupt person, who had grown rich in those years, refused to give him the sheep. The Angel told him that I’m the same angel who gave u a sheep, but u don’t deserve the blessing of ALLAH. And he snatched him all the herds of sheep. The person became bankrupt again.

Then the angel met to last person and asked him that ALLAH has bestowed you with herds of goat. Will u please give me a goat in the name of ALLAH?
The man said I would be obliged to give u not a single goat, but a herd of goat because what ever I have that is the blessing of my Almighty Allah. The Angel became happy and revealed upon him that I’m the same angel, and as u have thanked Almighty ALLAH now He will bestow you much more than you have in the world and u will get the reward in the hereafter also.

So, from above small moral story, we can say that we don’t deserve what we desire. It is our Almighty Allah who is most beneficent and merciful and He bestows us more than we deserve.



Regards

Nedian

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Thanx alot of your Comments
VERY NICE

Agreed upon

Nedian, very true

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Your are most welcome PlayinG... in fact the topic was attractive! by the way it is nice to see people playing around here...

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SO far the Game is there, they have to be Playing that

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