Guys ! I am over sensitive ..what to do ?

Wazeer · #1 Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Hi Guys ...I am over sensitive ..I take everything seriously ..i have tried to not think about people ..about society ..but as i am moving further is my study ..i am feeling lonliness and fear ..what to do ?

Andrew Dufresne · #2 Saturday, October 04, 2008

Wazeer!

It is always difficult to understand others.
It so hard to feel their pain, their misery.
No one else can perceive our personal turmoil.

How can we express the torment we are passing through, to others?
How can we make others to share our sufferings?

Forget this sharing stuff!
You were born alone, no body was born with you.
You will die alone, no body is going to die with you.
Stop waiting for others to change or help.

Throw this thing out of your mind that someday a Princess will come in your life; who will start sharing your pain, who will heal your wounded heart.

No Wazeer, No!
Stop searching for solutions. Stop looking for the holy grail.
If you want to change and most importantly, if you want to be successful,
you have to learn that the holy grail of this quest is you.

The solution is not hidden within you. Wazeer, you, yourself is the solution.
Your mind, your body, your heart, your soul, these are the solution to your problem.

Wazeer, have you read "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz"?
You remember, Dorothy wanted to go back her home from the very beginning.
But it is revealed only in the end that she had the power to go home all along.
Don't be like her.

Don't try to find solutions or answers or medicines or a therapy, when you already have the answer.

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i have tried to not think about people ..about society ..

It seems that you are now in despair. You are feeling hopelessness and in desperation, you have posted.

But Wazeer, it doesn't matter how many times you have tried, how many times you have failed.
It means nothing that how many paths you have trodden in your quest for solace.

The fact is never going to change.
Your desperation, your dejection or even your struggle and optimism cannot change the universal truth. That Solution lies with you.

If you want to be at home with this world, you better start trying again.

Wazeer!

Have you ever felt hurt on others loss?
Have you ever complained about your sensitivity when reading newspaper?
Have you ever had any problem with your tender heart when you saw a Kacchi Abadi?
What do you think when you read that a youth had been killed on some petty issue?
Do you feel the same amount of pain as you feel on your own mishap?

What I mean is that being sensitive is the best thing one can ever wish for.
Surprised?

Sensitivity, is good, but only when it is for others wretched life.

Wazeer, forget about your miseries.
Try feeling others life, listen to their painful stories, witness the social injustices.
See the exploited and persecuted masses through the eye of your heart.
Try to imagine the bigotry a person belonging to deprived class bears.
Inhale the misery around you.

Do you think if we Pakistanis were sensitive to others then Pakistan would be in present quagmire?
Do you think that we would have suicide bombings if we all had a tender heart?
Do you think we would face the legendary incompetence of all state institutions if we were thin skinned?

I really wish that every person in this world becomes sensitive or rather over sensitive, provided that this sensitivity is for others.

You are a member if this forum, so it looks like that you will be a CSS officer one day, god willing.
Bro, don't lose your trait. Be sensitive throughout your life.
A CSS officer with a sensitive heart can make an enormous difference in the present bleak social scene of Pakistan!

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Hi Guys ...I am over sensitive ..I take everything seriously ..

Cheer up Bro! The country needs sensitive people.
Keep on being sensitive, keep on taking everything seriously.
Cry profusely on daily basis whenever you read newspaper.
But don't forget to turn into a selfless being.

PS : to express oneself is as difficult as to feel others pain. I apologize if I misunderstood you or hurt you in some way.

barren_vision · #3 Wednesday, January 07, 2009

if u r sensitive then keep in mind that u hav to suffer more than others. being a sensitive one means u hav got a free license to be worried all the time....... hmmmmmmmmmmm

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