That's why I got married as soon as I felt I'm losing intensity of sexual interest. Thit's fact that age really matter. The more you young, more you'll enjoy! There is no great use of marriage when you are above 30 except getting babies.

Here is my opinion

My age is 27, the one to whom I like is belong to " Syed / Sadaat" family according to her, " Hum family sy bahir rishty nahi karty hm per raas nahi atay" friends what I can do in this situation, ? Qasam sy koi or dil ko achi lagti hi nahi aur wo muhtarma yi batay karti hy. Es k saath saath hm be senior citizen may shamil honey ja rahay hy. Per still single.? any serious advise.

If she can't defy that false tradition for you (family se baahir rishtay na karnay wali) then she is not meant for you. Try to like some other one who can accept you against all odds.

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It seems like everyone sees marriage as a source of "Enjoyment" and nothing else. I think it is a sensitive decision to be made is one's life as it is not a "Gudda aur guria ka khail". There are so many other factors involved in marrying to someone but people usually see it as a sexual thing and over here on the forum too. One should not in a haste to make an early decision because of not having control over sexual desires but instead one should think of considering all the factors involved that could lead a couple to a happy married life ahead.

Perfect age to marry in opinion of mine is.........when "people "(for both ) seem innocent and simple.....you start playing with babies of "others "....to help "people " matters not....life of "hallucination " has prolonged itself "deliberately "....and Khalas...Phophoos. ..and. ...Am'mies ....strart worried about you more than before. ...To smjho..... waqt aagya Hai. ...

To lose interest in matrimonial relationship is problem of the cowerdice....everybody faces worries of life...seriously ...no exception. ..but "they" don't let this relationship getting lose. ...point out the problems and try to solve them...they may be linked with "blood " or finance or family or carrier. .......

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Thank you for saying this. I came here to say this too. This is a schoolboy's vision of marriage. I'm disappointed in the members.

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Owing to the seriousness of this matter, the authority is given to parents to decide for kid's future. If one makes this matter as serious as you are referring to, then here I would say not a word of mine but Hazrat Ali R.A., Nikah ko asan banao, jis muashray mein nikah mushkil hojaye wahan zina asan hojata hai. In this connection, this matter should be made moderately serious, not that much as if one would go to hell if something wrong happened. God forbid, even if something wrong happens, then there are sorted out ways in our Deen. Again repeating, the gravity of this matter is given to parents to make decision accordingly. Exceptions are everywhere though.

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Whatever you write for the necessary of marriage, aren't wrong. Actually, a book can be easily write if we start discussing benefits, necessities and other ethical and philosophical attributes of married life.

But... after all ground reality is, according to Nature and our Religion; basic (not sole) purpose of marriage is giving a (safe) way out to sexual pressures; to maintain the social equilibrium. (I'm not going in detail of circumstances of fulfilling sexual thirst in animal way)

After marriage, all ethical, social and philosophical attributes are taken care by the Nature and involvement of Society/Religion.

If someone denies importance of sexual dimension, he is totally wrong or passed his potential age which creates such urges. He needs to observe and understand the nature. Look from the start, not after Ph.D. Look at birds, animals; how they pair. Observe coupling basics in societies; European/American, Middle East, India.

Go simple, you'll get answers. Don't interfere too much with nature.

Let the nature do it's work.