Salam:
here is my a little question:
"Kia insan ka past change ho sakta hy"
If Yes: How?
If No: Why?

Time is just like a stream, where you can't touch the same water again ever.
And past is the gone-form of time.

Happiness can change your unwanted memories, similarly Griefness can change your good memories into griefness.

Happiness as well as sadness can only be acquire.
Acquire what you want

People who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common. They know all the reasons for failure, and have what they believe to be air-tight alibis to explain away their own lack of achievement.

Some of these alibis are clever, and a few of them are justifiable by the facts. But alibis cannot be used for SUCCESS. The world wants to know only one thing – HAVE YOU ACHIEVED SUCCESS?

A character analyst compiled a list of the most commonly used alibis. As you read the list, examine yourself carefully, and determine how many of these alibis, if any, are your own property.

1. IF I had enough “pull”…
2. IF I had money…
3. IF I had a good education…
4. IF I could get a job…
5. IF I had good health…
6. IF I only had time…
7. IF time were better…
8. IF other people understood me…
9. IF conditions around me were only different…
10. IF I could live my life over again…
11. IF I did not fear what “THEY” would say…
12. IF I had given a chance…
13. IF nothing happens to stop me…
14. IF I could only do what I want…
15. IF I had born rich…
16. IF I could meet “the right people”…
17. IF I had the talent that some people have…
18. IF I dared assert myself…
19. IF I only had embraced past opportunities…
20. IF people didn’t get on my nerves…
21. IF I didn’t have to keep and look after the family…
22. IF I could save some money…
23. IF the boss only appreciated me…
24. IF I only had somebody to help me…
25. IF my family understood me…
26. IF I lived in a big city…
27. IF I could just get started…
28. IF I were only free…
29. IF I had the personality of some people…
30. IF I were not so fat…
31. IF my talents were known…
32. IF I could jest get a “break”…
33. IF I only get out of debt…
34. IF I hadn’t failed…
35. IF I only knew how…
36. IF everybody didn’t oppose me…
37. IF I didn’t have so many worries…
38. IF I could marry the right person…
39. IF people weren’t so dumb…
40. IF my family were not so extravagant…
41. IF I were sure of myself…
42. IF lick were not against me…
43. IF I had not been born under the wrong star…
44. IF it were not true that “what is to be will be”…
45. IF I lived in a different neighborhood…
46. IF I didn’t have a “past”…
47. IF only had a business of my own…
48. IF other people would only listen to me…
49. IF I hade the courage to see my self as I really am, I would find out what is wrong with me, and correct it, than I might have a chance to profit by my mistakes and learn something from the experience of others.
50. WOULD HAVE BEEN IF I had spent more time analyzing my weaknesses…..

Building alibis with which to explain away failure is national pastime. The habit is as old as the human race, and is fatal to success!

Derived from book “Think and Grow rich” by Napoleon Hill. you must read

Asslamualaikum,
My dear, let me recall the words of the great singer Sardar Ali Takkar, who says" Past time like a dead body of grave, it can't be made alive by crying".
Gone days are not supposed to be returned, even accordingly shariah the past time can't be returned.
regards.

Sada Aish e Doran Doharata Nahin
Guzra Waqt Phir Hath Ata Nahin (can't remember it well)


poet nay bohat soch kar kaha tha yeh .... and its true ... time stops for none so past can not be changed

No, past can't be changed. Because what is gone, is gone. You can't revert to your past and make amend for your deeds etc.

Similarly, every minute you use thinking about your past, is just like wasting some more moments of your precious time because if they are used otherwise i.e., used to plan your future and moving towards achieving your goals can make a big and a real difference in the future.

So past can't be changed and therefore we should look forward and put in all our efforts for a better tomorrow.

Cheers!

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I don't give anyone a reason to HATE ME. They create their own drama out of PURE JEALOUSY...!!!

My dear fellows:
you are all right.....................But listen that first of all we are muslim......then anything else. so being a muslim if we think, it is seen that the Great almight Allah can do every thing............................he can do every thing.............he turns day into night and night into day........
Although there is not any example 4 that but We belive in Allah Who can do every thing................so its not impossible for him to change the past.....
Wishing you best of Luck................
thanks for ur comments............
REGARDS

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Nicepunjabian

FIRST OF ALL LET ME TELL YOU THERE ARE TWO IMP TYPES OF TIME.sUBJECTIVE TIME(WHICH IS CONNECTED WITH YO PERSONAL MEMORY IIN WHICH YOU CAN RELIVE YOUR PAST.Second is objective time means standard time which is irreversable.If we think about strem of consious that we at the same time think about different things.so many of us desire ti relive our past and we r also trapped in a state of to be or not to be.if we disects human mind then we will realize that our inner motves r found in strem.they are tengibe.we can relive in our past in our stream of consiosness.we should feel nostalgic about our past but should not regret it.I personally believe that instead of regretting past we should make our present up to the mark.because twommorro this present will changr in another past.

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I AM THE WAY I AM........................

i think if your past was good and present is bad do,t recall your past but if your present is good and past was bad all ways remember that,it ll keep you on the track,,,yes in our society past can be changed people forget about your past if you get some high ranks or bucks in your pocket,,,,they do forget evrything

reputation of a thousand years can be determened by the conduct of one hour,,,,,

@Usman Naseer,
Bro,i do appreciate ur exhaustive efforts online,but sorry to say u fell very short of answering what was asked..no mention..keep it up

@Rabia basri,

Sis, i wd really appreciate knowing the difference b/tween subjective and objective living in past....or,for tht purpose say, difference b/tween changing past subjectively n objectively...What a miracle if true anyways!!

@Nicepunjabian(Hope nicest),

Mam, NO WAY....Both religiously n worldy speaking....Guzra huwa zamana aata nahi dobara....I really wonder what sorta question u raised n did more wonder rather on entailing answers as if there was some red siren let loose for ration-collection n ppl came thinking some job-application...

Well,well,u c Miss NP(sorry for abbrvtng)....time is but only in Allah's Will...Yes,He is Master over it,but He is not going to change it at v sinful peoples' whims,etc.He can stop it like He did stop sun-rising when Hazrat Bilal Habshi was crying all nite in masjid-e-nabwi....etc..But for us css aspirants ,i dont think we got any chance at time the ever-changing...
regards