Sunday, April 28, 2024
04:24 AM (GMT +5)

Go Back   CSS Forums > Off Topic Section > Off Topic Lounge

Reply Share Thread: Submit Thread to Facebook Facebook     Submit Thread to Twitter Twitter     Submit Thread to Google+ Google+    
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
  #11  
Old Thursday, September 03, 2015
Monk's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2014
Posts: 691
Thanks: 293
Thanked 643 Times in 317 Posts
Monk will become famous soon enoughMonk will become famous soon enough
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by sincer khan View Post
I Said That Parents are not responsible for any activities of their children. the other factors are completely responsible. i saw a lot of people who grew without parents and then became world successful Man.. ,

Yes they are great men but great men are rare , majority is mediocre and mediocre need a lot of attention from their parent and society to grow morally and ethically
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old Saturday, September 05, 2015
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Rawalpindi
Posts: 108
Thanks: 69
Thanked 46 Times in 28 Posts
Mahi Khursheed is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by sincer khan View Post
I Said That Parents are not responsible for any activities of their children. the other factors are completely responsible. i saw a lot of people who grew without parents and then became world successful Man.. the reason which is destroying our society is Pakistani Media Like Internet/Facebook. Indian typical type movies, Low Mobile packages, pakistani Tv Dramas because their only purpose is "LOVE" while they have no other topics which will be show to public/viewers. Co-Education,
I think Parents are solely responsible for such unfortunate accidents because background or upbringing is often mirrored through actions of children. As children are immature then they should be under strict surveillance of parents. No doubt, other factors such as internet and social media matter but if parents have played their part in contemplating their children's activities, this would not have happened. Further, if the parents did not approve their relationships then there are other ways as well through which children can be handled.
__________________
watu'izzu man tasha-“au wa-tuzillu man tasha-“au
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old Tuesday, September 08, 2015
Muhammad Bilal Butt's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2015
Location: Lahore
Posts: 140
Thanks: 26
Thanked 60 Times in 48 Posts
Muhammad Bilal Butt is on a distinguished road
Default

I think kids might have been inspired from some movie, and that(committing suicide) seemed a solution to their problem, and they went for it. They thought if there parents were not happy with the affair they had, and would never let them get married in their life then they thought that if they ended up committing a suicide then they would be able to live together forever in another world, and that kind of theme is something what we have been seeing in dramas, movies for decades, and we need to figure what made them think of that.

I guess everyone has to play their roles responsibly whether it be parents, media, society, teachers. The greater portion of the responsibility goes to parents, because parents can do what no other person can, for the children. If parents give little attention to their kids on daily basis, and keep eye on their activities, and teach them what morally is good and bad then this could help reduce the gap between parents and their children. There should be frankness between the kid and parents so that kid could share everything with their parents. Parents need not to become a Hitler to make their children follow what they want them to follow but it can be done with politeness.
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old Tuesday, September 08, 2015
Mary Grey's Avatar
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2015
Posts: 17
Thanks: 3
Thanked 9 Times in 3 Posts
Mary Grey is on a distinguished road
Default

I think it's parents duty to look after their children about their where abouts, what they are watching, what they are liking etc..
They are parents they have spent a life they know better thn their children.. They have knowledge about the society. They should tell their child this is right and this is wrong. They should not force their decision on them. They should be friendly with them. They should make them feel relax so they can share everything with their parents..
Parents know better thn anyone about their children because once they were children of their parents. So they know what a mind of teenager thinks and how it works..
☺☺

Sent from my Lenovo A5500-HV using Tapatalk
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old Wednesday, September 09, 2015
comapp's Avatar
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2015
Location: Earth
Posts: 46
Thanks: 5
Thanked 33 Times in 15 Posts
comapp is on a distinguished road
Default

I want to say few things about this issue.

I-The myth of suicide is increasing day by day in our society and has now become a common part of our society. Few of these incidents are picked up by media while majority of them have no appearance in media.

II- Keeping in view this increasing trend, the reason behind this is increase in technology, psychological war, and day by day increasing snub from Islam.
  1. Due to Increase in technology, illegal activities have been risen up. Poor Media like magazines, movies, Drama has created the sense of suicide and murder for the sake of desires. Social media, Mobiles and other facilities have nourished illegal desires. And finally increase in weapon and chemical has made easy to fulfill the desire to commit suicide or murder someone.
  2. Psychological war has targeted the psyche of young generation, inculcating real things like murder, suicide in virtual manner. These virtual actions are becoming the part of their unconscious memory. They are moving away from conscience. For example they think that they will be again in their society with their heads up like actors or their emotions will be the same after their death as per shown in movies and other media. They don’t know that reality is far away from their thinking inculcated by these actions. In this way psychological war is fulfilling its goals by misleading young generation.
  3. Co-education system has also contributed a lot in this issue. Love and love marriages are nourished under the umbrella of co-education and finally immature hearts spend all of their life in vain. Either they finish their life like the recent case or they become a very passive member of the society.
  4. Islam is a Deen for the prosperity of all humanity. It has established a system of reward and punish to maintain social order. It has held parents responsible for upbringing their children according to the principles of Islam. Moreover, it has made obligatory for children’s to obey their parents unless they ask them for ‘kufar’. Media inculcates illegal desires by making repeated trials over same passion, love marriage, love story. Islam has setup a system of ‘Tableegh’ to inculcate the principles of Islam in the minds of human, by preaching same story repeatedly so that it becomes solemn. When movies are seen more than listening about Islamic values, then automatically the evil overcomes and finally leads to its destination. May Allah Almighty save all of us from these evils.

III-It is now challenge for parents, state and education system to counter this myth. First,Parents should make their children emotionally discharged by letting them share everything they want to share. If their emotions are not discharged then they will find any other source to discharge their emotions that may or may not be appropriate for them. Second, State should establish a system to check such incidents by regulating media in a proper way. Third, education system should be such as to boost up the morality of young generation and impart the sense of reality in their minds. All private institutes should be regulated and proper check and balance should be maintained over them so that they should be along the stream of same moral principles laid down for public education system.

IV- it is our responsibility to help our friends whom we find indulged in a serious problems of life. Brotherhood is the principle of Islam by which we are morally responsible for the welfare of other humans.

Finally, lot of sorrow for this and many other incidents of suicide caused by girl/boy friendship, love affairs, and love marriages, and incidents of murders of many kinds.
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to comapp For This Useful Post:
Mary Grey (Wednesday, September 09, 2015)
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Nab result of psychological test / interview call ???? MYG2010 National Accountability Bureau (NAB) 4251 Saturday, March 11, 2017 03:14 PM
NAB ::: Psychological Test ::: HELP NEEDED MYG2010 National Accountability Bureau (NAB) 1216 Friday, September 16, 2016 06:45 PM
All about Pakistan Muhammad Adnan General Knowledge, Quizzes, IQ Tests 78 Wednesday, May 16, 2012 09:50 PM


CSS Forum on Facebook Follow CSS Forum on Twitter

Disclaimer: All messages made available as part of this discussion group (including any bulletin boards and chat rooms) and any opinions, advice, statements or other information contained in any messages posted or transmitted by any third party are the responsibility of the author of that message and not of CSSForum.com.pk (unless CSSForum.com.pk is specifically identified as the author of the message). The fact that a particular message is posted on or transmitted using this web site does not mean that CSSForum has endorsed that message in any way or verified the accuracy, completeness or usefulness of any message. We encourage visitors to the forum to report any objectionable message in site feedback. This forum is not monitored 24/7.

Sponsors: ArgusVision   vBulletin, Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.