God save me from my friends; I can take care of my enemies

mohsin4bhatti · #1 Tuesday, June 08, 2010

Please discuss your views about this topic"God save me from my friends; I can takecare of my enemies,.

Thanks.

mangat1 · #2 Tuesday, June 08, 2010

I loved it, I just loved the statement. According to me, this the problem of those people who are very good and sincere at heart.

Nek Muhammad · #3 Tuesday, June 08, 2010

I have no trouble with my enemies. I can take care of my enemies all right. But my apparent Friends know my strengths and weaknesses. They can become dangerous than my enemies and also I pray to God, protect me from myself. My inner evil.
Bullay Shah says " Padh Padh ilm hazar kitaban da. kadi apne aap nu padhiya nai? jaa jaa wad dey mandar, maseeti kadi mann apne vich wadiya nai
Awein lad da shetan dey naal bandiya kadi nafs apne naal ladiya nai. aasmani phad nai jeda mann vich wasda onhun phadiya nai"

You have learnt so much by reading thousand books. Have you ever read what is inside you? you go and sit in mosque and temple, Have you ever visited your own soul? You who are busy fighting satan, have you ever fought your own evil intentions? You have reached the sky. But have failed to reach what's in your heart.

Raz · #4 Wednesday, June 09, 2010

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Originally Posted by mohsin4bhatti

Please discuss your views about this topic"God save me from my friends; I can takecare of my enemies,.

Thanks.

When two edges of a bow (crescent) are brought closer, the arrow (shot) is very dangerous and far reaching. Same is the case with friends and closer ones. When they get closer to you, you are exposed to them. A person is stronger till he is master of his own secrets but he becomes weaker when he falls prey to his secrets and becomes slave of his own weaknesses. Most dangerous person is the Munafiq because you can’t predict his actions.

Your known enemies are lesser dodgy for you as you are at least sure about their bad intentions, and their probable actions against your interest. You are mentally prepared for their actions and you have often worked out counter strategies to tackle them. Your defensive or even offensive strategies will help you in fighting with your known enemies.

You are in a fix when you don’t know your enemies; hidden enemy is the worst enemy. Friends are known to be your companion, your well wishers, your helpers, and your event sharing factors. Often you compromise your secrecy when it is between you and your friend. When friends turn to be your enemies, you are caught in a dilemma for following reasons:

1) They know your sensitivities, they are well aware about your SWOTs (strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats). They can predict your future action and can act accordingly.
2) Often, you can’t fight them openly due to Hazoor sharmi, due to past rapport, past relations, your pleasing memories, and lot of commitments & loyalties. Due to these social and moral limitations you can’t pay them in the same coin / token that is why you badly need God’s help in this troublesome situation.

Isi liy Raz ko Raz rahny dia karain……………………………..

sajidnuml · #5 Friday, June 11, 2010

FRENCH philospher Voltaire said these words when a lot of guests paid frequent visits to his new home in swiss,one of his friend came and stayed for 6 weeks; at last he didnt afford it and refused everybody the entry and started working on his new tasks of wreting.

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