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Yesterday, a debate was going on a FM channel, where it was under discussion that Can Man and Woman or Young Boy and Girl Be Friend? and strange thing is that 75% people through live calls denied the above statement by saying NO.Is it like that?
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I think its rite. There is nothing wrong in just frindship but u knw with the passage of time this frindship converts into infatuation or u may call it love & then many more things to happen. Also, our religion Islam does nt allow such meaningless & purposeless relations. The teachings of islam r prety much clear & i think there is no need to deny this fact.
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Yesterday, a debate was going on a FM channel, where it was under discussion that Can Man and Woman or Young Boy and Girl Be Friend? and strange thing is that 75% people through live calls denied the above statement by saying NO.Is it like that?
They can be good friends just on net and not otherwise.....Friendship is a vast term,its not just a matter of sending messages or receiving phone calls..you share everything with your friends..and atleast in my point of view no girl or boy can understand each others'feelings in their so-called Friendship..thatswhy,Islam doesnot allow such fake relations..these days cellular companies in their advertisements used to show the friendship of girls and boys,which is totally wrong and these commercials have spoiled the minds of young generation...
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Yes, both can be friends. It's inevitable to avoid interaction between girl and boy. In almost every field of life we have to face people from both gender. Therefore education on such matter is the need of time. My sister has many male friends and I have many female. As long as we know how to stick to our limits its all fine.

Now coming to the issue of love: There is no harm in liking someone. In response if the other half likes you as well thats a jackpot. However, both male and female should have awareness and should foresight the future of their relation and it's practicality.
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u r right in saying that girls and boys can b friends but only on net.
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ya, that is why making and breaking friendship facility available here.
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Undoubtedly men and women are friends on social networking sites and internet but it is not possible in real life or our society due to its conservative temperament. If we gauge it through Islamic perspective then relations of virtual world carries equal position with real world i.e. both are not allowed.

In professional field interaction is unavoidable and we can't call it friendship it is just interaction between colleagues.
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they can be but ........

i dont know about what's going on in women's head.

but 99 percent of men involved in such friendships are mostly looking for relations prohibited in Islam. ( amorous and to some extent "timepass" ) . love before marriage is scarce in men's dictionary.
thats what the majority of people avow.( )

very often they start with friendship but the attraction towards opposite gender is for sure whether you admit or not .

on internet i think this factor is suppressed . until unless exchange of cell # is avoided.
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they can be but ........

i dont know about what's going on in women's head.

but 99 percent of men involved in such friendships are mostly looking for relations prohibited in Islam. ( amorous and to some extent "timepass" ) . love before marriage is scarce in men's dictionary.
thats what the majority of people avow.( )
I think now its clear that no friendship is possible between a girl and a guy..Islamic teachings are very clear in this regard..Islam is not a conservative religion but it is very practical in its approach...how a husband could bear the male friend of his wife??and the same is the case with girls...usually,girls dont allow their husband even to talk with unknown girls on cell...
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its very true that friendship b/w male and female can't be and shouldn't be allowed in Islamic society.
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