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Criticism should be harsh, hard and ruthless. It should never be soft and cute. It should a tight slap on the face of the person. Because, it will raise him for the dead. Make him more conscious and aware, not to commit the same mistake again. All great critics were uncompromising, strong and very acerbic. Criticism is good, not having a nerve to take criticism is bad.
Mr. Daniyal Sahab... I would like to give you a good suggestion. You need not bother about the spellings, grammatical mistakes, or writing skills of others. First of all you must prove that you have the ability to guide others. For this to happen you have to qualify the exam. After you have qualified the exams you would be in a better position to guide the new aspirants. Whatever you are doing at the moment is no less than a futile exercise. Remember there is big difference between guidance and criticism. The former is always welcome and not the latter. No offense and take good care.
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That's why I said you are a bad critic. Believe me, you really are. Critics criticize work, art, performances. They do not criticize workers, artists, performers. I have studied Criticism and I never found Eliot, Wordsworth, Coleridge and other critics rude, harsh and ruthless.
Ma'am - Eliot is T.S. Eliot or George Eliot, T.S. Eliot was primarily known as a poet and George Elliot is a novel writer. Both, of these people were not known as critics.

Ma'am I have read all books of literature, even though I do not have degree in literature.

Wordsworth and Samuel Taylor Coleridge were also poets. Hence, it can deduced that you have read wrong people for criticism. They were primarily poets. A modern day critic is Harold Bloom, also food critics are really ruthlessly.
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Criticism should be harsh, hard and ruthless. It should never be soft and cute. It should a tight slap on the face of the person. Because, it will raise him for the dead. Make him more conscious and aware, not to commit the same mistake again. All great critics were uncompromising, strong and very acerbic. Criticism is good, not having a nerve to take criticism is bad.
If criticism should be harsh, ruthless and like a slap then the purpose behind criticism becomes suspicious, and criticism enters the premises of insult which is unacceptable. Nobody in the world is born with a desire to be insulted, not even you! If I apply your own principle to you and say "manners hen nae ar aa jatay hen criticize krnay.... Bla bla", how would you feel? Ofcourse bad!
But if I say Brother be polite whenever you criticize, then too message is communicated but in other way.

It was the power of Positive attitudes, Kind behaviour, Decent manners and soft spoken words that our ancestors could spread the light of Islam in the whole world. Harsh words can do no good.
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If criticism should be harsh, ruthless and like a slap then the purpose behind criticism becomes suspicious, and criticism enters the premises of insult which is unacceptable. Nobody in the world is born with a desire to be insulted, not even you! If I apply your own principle to you and say "manners hen nae ar aa jatay hen criticize krnay.... Bla bla", how would you feel? Ofcourse bad!
But if I say Brother be polite whenever you criticize, then too message is communicated but in other way.

It was the power of Positive attitudes, Kind behaviour, Decent manners and soft spoken words that our ancestors could spread the light of Islam in the whole world. Harsh words can do no good.
In this world, only the harsh, brutal and strong survive. Not point in being polite, just make yourself heard.
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In this world, only the harsh, brutal and strong survive. Not point in being polite, just make yourself heard.
What about the next world? where you have to answer for each and every word of yours that had resulted in someone's insult or discouragement...how will you defend yourself then?
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In this world, only the harsh, brutal and strong survive.
For how long?

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You need to clear your basic concepts.

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Politeness will help you in doing this.
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Danyal Ahmed Brother, Honestly telling you, you are just trying to be different from others. But in fact, you are not, you are in 'Superiority Complex', but whenever you are caught at the right time in some kind of embarrassing moment, then you will realize how it feels.
Give respect and get respect. Now look at yourself everyone is against you, is this mean that everyone is wrong and you are right alone?. I am afraid if you got through CSS written exam successfully then during your interview you will badly criticize the whole panel interviewing you. And you will try to prove them wrong. In response, they will give you the 'Honour' which you may have never experienced in your life. Try to be logical in your behavior, this kind of rudeness and harshness will make you pay a lot for the mess you will create.
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@Last Island, I had captured the gist in a single sentence

@all : Develop a nerve to accept criticism. Criticism allows us to improve.

@ Buddha : I had only spelled "spelling" incorrectly once, due to a typographical error and I accepted it. I further thanked you for rectifying the mistake. According to Hazrat Ali (R.A) anyone teaches me a single word, is my teacher but you on the other hand, instead of appreciating me went against me.

Winner or loser, having the right attitude really matters in life. Which unfortunately is lacking in your case.
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Criticism should be harsh, hard and ruthless. It should never be soft and cute. It should a tight slap on the face of the person. Because, it will raise him for the dead. Make him more conscious and aware, not to commit the same mistake again. All great critics were uncompromising, strong and very acerbic. Criticism is good, not having a nerve to take criticism is bad.
Yeah man! I slapped you for bad spelling, I'm also a harsh critic so don't complain.
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Ma'am - Eliot is T.S. Eliot or George Eliot, T.S. Eliot was primarily known as a poet and George Elliot is a novel writer. Both, of these people were not known as critics.
T. S. Eliot. He is primarily known as poet but it doesn't mean he was just a poet. He as an essayist, playwright and social and literary critic.
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Wordsworth and Samuel Taylor Coleridge were also poets.
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Ma'am I have read all books of literature, even though I do not have degree in literature.
Really? Have you read Biographia Literaria? Advertisement to the Lyrical Ballads? Preface to the Lyrical ballads? The Use of Poetry and the Use of Criticism? The idea of a Christian Society? Notes Towards a definition of Culture? Selected essay? On poetry and poets? To criticize the critic?

Raise your standard to my level to discuss literature. You know nothing.
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Too smart for your own good.


T. S. Eliot. He is primarily known as poet but it doesn't mean he was just a poet. He as an essayist, playwright and social and literary critic.
http://www.cssforum.com.pk/css-optio...ot-critic.html


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http://www.cssforum.com.pk/css-optio...th-critic.html


Really? Have you read Biographia Literaria? Advertisement to the Lyrical Ballads? Preface to the Lyrical ballads? The Use of Poetry and the Use of Criticism? The idea of a Christian Society? Notes Towards a definition of Culture? Selected essay? On poetry and poets? To criticize the critic?

Raise your standard to my level to discuss literature. You know nothing.
He is just trolling everybody for some unknown reasons or probably enjoying this all & you are taking him seriously??

Anyway kindly move my thread regarding "Stockholm Syndrome" to discusion section as it isn't an off-topic I guess.
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