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Being a male I disagree to ur version of islam.You have put thousands of conditions on women.Alas! But u havent even bother to say any thing to restrict men. Y we fail to regard women as human being, Y we men treat them as our property? Give them space to breath, let them exercise their inner talent, let them make difference in d world. No one can force or restrict them to just homes.Islam is the universal religion n for all times, plz dont make it religion of just men.

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Please explain your version of Islam. I follow the Islam of Muhammad (S.A.W) in the light of Quran, Sunnah & Hadith.

When we are talking about women then why we talk about men ? Thread name "Confusion regarding women earnings" not confusion regarding men earnings. Men are also restricted in many fields of life.

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In Islamic Ghazwat, women used to do works like providing water to the Mujahids, providing them medical help when they got wounded.

Were Those people were mehram for them. Was in those fields only women were present.
If not? Then why Holy Prophet PBUH did not stop them from doing this, If women can't go out of their homes for working.

If they are allowed to do this noble task then why Barriers are placed in their ways when they want to do something good for themslves and their families.
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Agreed wid ayesha.. in addition to that i would say it is the character and inner purification that restricts women n men from doing wrong at the end of the day, not mere conditions. In this technological era even woman can do evil in her home by cam etc.So plz just dont impose conditions on them, try to make them righteous in true sense and let them choose any career he or she wants according to their skills.
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The work should be in a place that is only for women, and there should be no mixing with non-mahram men.
This is impossible in every case. Even in teaching females have to deal with males.

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Whilst at work she should observe complete shar’i hijab.
Now this can open an endless discussion about the limits of Sharai Hijab.

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Her going out to work should not involve committing any haraam action, such as being alone with the driver, or wearing perfume where non-mahrams can smell it.
Sometimes even domestic women have to travel alone without Mahram, not only travel but to do so many things like consulting doctors etc. without the help of mahram relatives.
What to do in such cases?
Should she die if doesn't have a mahram?
OR can a man do everything alongwith earning livelihood for his wife & daughters if he hasn't a male helping hand for him?
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I agreed with both of you. I am not against the working of woman or in favour of to restrict her for some specified fields. But I still emphasize over the Islamic Restrictions for the both woman & man in each and every aspect of life.

If a man / woman follows the teachings of Islam while living at home or studying at school/college/university, working in offices or in other fields of life then there is no restriction for both.
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Sometimes even domestic women have to travel alone without Mahram, not only travel but to do so many things like consulting doctors etc. without the help of mahram relatives.
What to do in such cases?
Should she die if doesn't have a mahram?
Why we emphasize to have male driver ? Why we do not like to have female drivers ?
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Aoa , all according to my point of view women earning should not be discourage-

Because women involvement in every field of life is neccessory-

Earning does not mean to earn money -- e.g-

In villiages women helps theirs hubbies in the fields- in the fields they encourage women envolvements which is very difficult job- why ppl forbide their womens in working in ofces-- They should be encouraged-

But keep one thing in ur mind husband should not empose that women must work to win family bread n butter-

Its husband responsibility to earn money for his family women can help him
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Why we emphasize to have male driver ? Why we do not like to have female drivers ?
It lies in the authority who appoints drivers, that is mostly the males and they don't trust in females abilities.
We like female drivers , and most of the women like to drive for themselves in our country if they are permitted.On the other hand, professional drivers unfortunately belong to the lower class where the females are restricted for such type of work due to illiteracy.
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Well friends,
I dont know it is true or just our (male) thinking that women are bad drivers !
As for me, whenever i see a car driven by a women i try my best to stay away from her after observing their behaviour especially while they are making a turn on a road. They cause traffic jam by parking on the road and buying fruits from the thela wala as they dont want to come out of the car while bargaining for price. Anyway, lets hope the things will improve with the passage of time.
Oh ya, all the female traffic wardens of lahore who tried to ride bikes few months back are nowhere on the road and opting for office duty.
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@Sociologist PU

Female traffic wardens did a good job after having experienced the attitude of our society. In fact our society is "Aada tetar aada batair" and in more formal terms shows dualistic behaviour. On one hand our culture and religion require us not to put females in such type of jobs but on the other hand, to show ourselves modern or "moderated muslim" we are doing it. Result would exactly be the same as just happened.

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