I have written earlier that thread was deleted by any one among you on that night. Because, due to typical questions concerned to Holly prophet (S.a.w), in the end , Bilal hassan wrote:

"I hope mods will not be in deep slumber, I don't find any any reason for this post to not to delete ..ese ..and further he required its deletion."

Yes, perhaps, I had also demanded deletion of that thread; but, it was not a moral way to talk with a female.

I think the time was 10 to 11 p.m. Next morning, it was deleted.

Bilal ki post se phle Daisy reply kar chuki thi in formal way to that lady:

"Sister, I don't like the way you ask such questions.. " such kinds of words.

He -- Bilal -- is a CSP; therefore, his such behaviour triggered me to proferr him guidance for the future, in the same way he used for that lady. I don't have any other intention except this.

Brother Mustansar is right. I am witness of those posts and that thread. The nature of thread was such that many members could not control their emotions. Its possible that brother Bilal does not remember that post because its been long time since then but I request him to apologize for his words and both of you resolve this issue peacefully!! Both of you are respectable muslim brothers!

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When did this happen? How many weeks or months ago?

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I don't remember exactly but it happened few months ago in 2015 winter i guess when Mehria started a thread related to Holy Prophet Peace Be Upon Him! She used to start many new threads frequently those days.

She started a thread and raised some inappropriate question related to the marriage of Holy Prophet ﷺ with Hazrat Ayesha (R.A.) but used some indecent word in her question for Holy Prophet ﷺ. This thing infuriated many... She could have asked that thing in better way!

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@ Mustansar...

Listen brother, I have all respect and reverence for women, because I want the women associated with me to be treated the same way and I know that if I disrespect any woman, it is going to come back to me. I don't remember if I ever did this, see you gave me the same remark, exact same words, how is it possible that mods deleted my words and yours are still there!

I believe mods are impartial and they would have dealt with both cases the same way, but your remarks with same words are still in that thesis statement thread.

Dear brother, neither I know nor do I have any issue with you, this place is for knowledge sharing and learning, so never take things personally. I did not mention you in any of my comment in this thread but you are after me since we interacted in that thesis statement issue. Brother, let us keep this platform a learning place.

@Daisy

Mods don't remember, so don't I. If you think that what he is accusing me of is true then it might be the case. But ma'am if you just want me to apologize from your brother then I do. I'm sorry! If you also want to support him then its your discretion.

I think that's it! Best of Luck to both of you in your endeavors.

This forum used to be my second home, however, I think now is the time we should bid adieu and make room for new comers. I'm extremely sorry to all of you if I ever hurt anyone. This place would always be in my good memories. I made some good friends here. This is my last post here so I would reiterate my apologies to all.

@ Last Island
Adieu ma'am, had a good time here. You have surely been one of best people I have ever come across in my life. May Allah bless you with best of both worlds. This forum is alive because of you, until you are here, it would remain here. Thanks for giving us such a nice place.
Best wishes.

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But when love is one sided, holding off is no more an option.

Dear sis, issue is permanently resolved for me; I'm done with my job.

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Or do you think that the Fellows of the Cave and the Inscription were of Our Signs wonderful?

Neither I am supporting nor opposing anyone! I just fulfilled my responsibility of testifying what I remember but things are going worst and this is very painful for me! We can avoid many such bitter situations in life if we learn to respond negative things with positive attitude. Look what Almighty says:

"And O Prophet, goodness and evil are not equal. Repel evil with what is best. You will see that he with whom you had enmity, has become your closest friend. But none can attain to this quality except those who endure with patience, and none can attain to this rank except those who are men of great good fortune. And if you feel an incitement from Satan, seek refuge in Allah. He hears everything and knows everything [Chapter 41, Verses 34-41]

Positive behavior includes forgiving others mistakes, accepting one's own mistake in a humble way and disliking bad deeds instead of disliking the person committing those mistakes or those highlighting your mistakes! We are all humans and to err is human!

Brother Bilal! this forum does not deserve your such post that I am leaving. Scores of members here follow you, looks towards you for guidance and appreciate you for who you are! I request you to forget these petty issues and return to this place which does not belong to any person but which is a whole community in itself! Don't take things personally as Brother Mustansar has clarified that his intentions were pure and he admires you as a competent member!

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I think all the senior people here need to revisit their behaviour. As far as I understand, this thread was initiated to call back the old heroes. But, unfortunately, we're losing the ones we already have.
I think we must learn to respect our seniors. I am on this forum for 3-4 years. I don't post excessively. I have not seen the aforementioned thread. But your discussion reveals that some members did attack a senior, respectable and very helpful member for no reason.
Members, its not good play.

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Ban kr Guhar niklay....

I have read all of the posts in this threads. No reason was convincing enough. Would you believe if I say those who have left the forum (due to one remark, one offensive post or one member) are a little bit selfish? They decided not to provide help to the hundreds of members and the future lot just because of one member? You quit because single unfair one-line criticism discouraged you. You are that vulnerable? A couple of years ago I was threatened to death. Did I leave? Many members show ingratitude. I have faced much more but that didn't pull me down. Then what's keeping you away?

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Now the Forum became a "War Forum"
Dear Bilal Hassan, you are a future bureaucrat, you are a very special person in this forum, i accept your every words, and we need your suggestion and guidance, please don't leave this place

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