Originally Posted by SADIA SHAFIQ

Read my lines and answer .i have asked about impulsion and u can`t say in this matter "should".they are impsoed for

1. wife as source of solving business deals
2.prostitution
3. imposed to earn when their father and male members become parasites ,my friend told me abt a girl who workrd in WARID TELE COM just to earn lively hood in order to eun the administration of house coz her father and brothers are parasites
4.drunkard husbands even snatched the " money "
5.brothers after parents death did not care for their sisters ..i worked in NISHAT HIGH SCHOOL jahan pe behnen bht khobsarta honey ke bawjud sar me sufaid baal liye apney bjanjey and bhanjiyo ke shadiya face karty he



my point is why males imposed .agaer women karna chaheye to"so bismillah" but nae to set -up aisa he je kaeh diya jata he "tum kaun and me kaun"and they monopolized women as a business tool. its not about women ke wo justice kar skaty he,its about men ke wo justice ker he nae sakta ja kal ager wife job na karty ho

Originally Posted by Shootingstar

The 3rd point is valid.When no one is there to earn she has to do it.Then it becomes her duty as being a daughter and family member to support her family till they get some alternative.
If,God forbid,my parents,brothers,or husband get crippled due to some accident,will it be fair to leave them.When they are all right,they are supporting you,then why cannot you become their backbone.
Apni family ke liye kaam kerna kisi per ahsaan nahi hota.
Sometimes you just don't have an alternative.If male member is not doing his duty,some body has to do it.

Originally Posted by mano g

This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.



Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....

Originally Posted by game on

well, if She is exactly the same as you have described, i dnt have any issue then......but if she really is just like that......

Originally Posted by ghulammujtaba86

I have some question in my mind. Women in West are mostly educated and independent, doing jobs and living their lives.
Did those women get respect and satisfaction?
Islam has put some duties to women and men separately, to earn is the duty of men and, to teach and serve home is duty of women. If a woman trains her children perfectly she had achieved everything if she fails then.................
All Solution lies in Surah Nisa.

Originally Posted by ghulammujtaba86

I have some question in my mind. Women in West are mostly educated and independent, doing jobs and living their lives.
Did those women get respect and satisfaction?

Islam has put some duties to women and men separately, to earn is the duty of men and, to teach and serve home is duty of women. If a woman trains her children perfectly she had achieved everything if she fails then.................
All Solution lies in Surah Nisa.

Originally Posted by ghulammujtaba86

I have some question in my mind. Women in West are mostly educated and independent, doing jobs and living their lives.
Did those women get respect and satisfaction?
Islam has put some duties to women and men separately, to earn is the duty of men and, to teach and serve home is duty of women. If a woman trains her children perfectly she had achieved everything if she fails then.................
All Solution lies in Surah Nisa.

Originally Posted by mano g

wow, Thanx God, atleast somebody has used the term ''no issue'', otherwise it seems to be very controversial sort of topic...and wait for such kind of girl, there must be someone like that