Originally Posted by xaara~hussain

how strange! manage your home and CHILL...lol, yeh aik alaihda bahs hai k orat kitna chill krti hai ghar manage kar k.

doing job without reason? bibi lagta hai ap kaheen khuwabon ki duniya ka ghur bta rahi hain shaadi k baad. unless u r not married to a 'khatay-peete' gharane ka chashm-o-charaagh, yeh khuwab dekhna bekaar hai. aur secondly, mujhe afsos hota hai is soch pe k aurat khud ko khud he kamzor krti hai. a woman today needs to be self-sufficient in a way too, be independent too. you never know whats in your fate, whats there for you tomorrow.

I would definitely do job after getting married, no matter how much more my husband earns. its never enough! agar mere ghur ka kharcha mere husband ki salary se pura hota hai, to main earn krun gi savings k liye, apna ghur bnane k liye. hath paon tor k ghur beth k jahel aurton ki tarha wont keep demanding for money.

or aik or reason, ghur beth k saas-nandon k sath star-plus star-plus khelne se acha hai job he ki jaye...its not a joke dude, my parents invested lacs for my education, and I should just use it to teach ABC to my kids. sorry, us k liye 12 jamaatain b kaafi thin.

Originally Posted by xaara~hussain

showpiece?kis zamanay ki baat kar rahi hain ap. kitni majbur lachaar hoti hain aurtain, apko andaza hai chees ka? kya kray woh aurat jo divorced hai or us ke bache bhi hain, kya woh bhayion or baap pe phir se bojh ban'ne k taanay sunay?

Welcome to the real world ma'am, yahan bohot kuch waisa hota hai jaisa hona nahi chahiye magar woh hona he hota hai.

Originally Posted by Samina Malik

Come on bibi,you are not here to change my views,Isn't that?
I suppose,every one here is contributing according to his or her own views,you are not here to criticize or are you han?

Originally Posted by Samina Malik

Kia bat ki thi mai nai.aur bana kia diya lol

Originally Posted by xaara~hussain

by the way, bibi is not a bad word. so don't feel anything bad about it. I don't know why we like it when we are called as ma'am/sir, and why we feel annoyed at Bibi/sahab. lol

anyways girl, I expressed my views, so if I criticized your views, its just that I don't simply agree to them and I have a right to say it out here.

hai k nahi? so, take it easy.

Originally Posted by Farrah Zafar

I don't consider it pain when it is done by choice and it doesn't collide with domestic responsibilities .It's for one's inner satisfaction that she is using her talents and grooming her personality by social interaction.

Men are bread earners so they should do it obviously but a woman should not be sticked to kitchen only when she has energy and brain to utilize for society.

Life is enjoyed,when one leads it with her own choice

Originally Posted by Samina Malik

I addressed you the way you addressed me. So no need to give lame excuses like Why we feel bad when some one call us bibi or sahib…did you feel bad han?
I suppose you should take it more easy than me because you were so rash and hasty to reply without reading all the posts,I dare say you didn’t even get the whole stuff because if you had..you must have not told me that your parents are spending lacs on your education lol and you want to utilize their lacs by doing job lol…plus as I am not married to a ‘’khatay peetay chashmo charagh’’ of this country so I should not say ‘’chill’’ lol,For your kind information I am not striving to marry a guy of your definition,are you?Because I myself a chashmo charagh of khatay peetay gharana so no need to day dream like you said.

PS:Try to convey your point in a humble way like every one is doing there,you can criticize of course but no one here is delivering their point like you just had.

Originally Posted by Faseeh Muhammad

Originally Posted by lizaaudacious

the last point is valid though,...yet energy and brain both can be utilized in some other ways,doing job is not the only way to it.staying at home and performing your duties in the best manner is ENJOYMENT too. ....there are many other things girls can do for society ,even if they are not doing jobs.