This is what I have said and this is the dilemma of our society

Tell you the truth,majority are like this (now)!
Before marriage,every girl want to see herself on top,she struggles like hell but after marriage PuFf!
Those who go for it either neglect their family life or their own health!
Now a days,(modern) man prefer working wife...You know who accompany them in every aspect of life!So sometimes she is pushed to do a job and sometimes she herself wants to be a freak!

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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go:)

More than dilemma!
I badly feel sometimes..women is being a show piece(responsibility lies on herself only)!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go:)

But still some examples of determined and strong ladies are there, who have maintained their religious values and unique identity by remaining within the limits...although there are a lot of hurdles in their way...but still they are doing well. They keep all the evil elements away from them.

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what humbugs we r,who pretend to live for beauty and never see the dawn :)

O fcourse there are and so many!

But you know what majority is authority.

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Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go:)

But ideals are only a few. They are role models.

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what humbugs we r,who pretend to live for beauty and never see the dawn :)

Did you get my point of the comment you quoted? I was talking about religious and social responsibilities not the working of women or showing their skills etc.

Furhermore women think going on top means working outside. But I think going on top is actually performing there duties well at home.

And i dont think majority men prefer working women, whether they r from any class.

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I am not interested in power for power's sake, but I'm interested in power that is moral, that is right and that is good.

how strange! manage your home and CHILL...lol, yeh aik alaihda bahs hai k orat kitna chill krti hai ghar manage kar k.

doing job without reason? bibi lagta hai ap kaheen khuwabon ki duniya ka ghur bta rahi hain shaadi k baad. unless u r not married to a 'khatay-peete' gharane ka chashm-o-charaagh, yeh khuwab dekhna bekaar hai. aur secondly, mujhe afsos hota hai is soch pe k aurat khud ko khud he kamzor krti hai. a woman today needs to be self-sufficient in a way too, be independent too. you never know whats in your fate, whats there for you tomorrow.

I would definitely do job after getting married, no matter how much more my husband earns. its never enough! agar mere ghur ka kharcha mere husband ki salary se pura hota hai, to main earn krun gi savings k liye, apna ghur bnane k liye. hath paon tor k ghur beth k jahel aurton ki tarha wont keep demanding for money.

or aik or reason, ghur beth k saas-nandon k sath star-plus star-plus khelne se acha hai job he ki jaye...its not a joke dude, my parents invested lacs for my education, and I should just use it to teach ABC to my kids. sorry, us k liye 12 jamaatain b kaafi thin.

showpiece?kis zamanay ki baat kar rahi hain ap. kitni majbur lachaar hoti hain aurtain, apko andaza hai chees ka? kya kray woh aurat jo divorced hai or us ke bache bhi hain, kya woh bhayion or baap pe phir se bojh ban'ne k taanay sunay?

Welcome to the real world ma'am, yahan bohot kuch waisa hota hai jaisa hona nahi chahiye magar woh hona he hota hai.

ghur main bethi aurat is baat ki gaurantee nahi hoti k us se evils duur hain. lets not start a new debate on this!