Why women are so special ? - Page 5

mano g · #41 Thursday, October 13, 2011

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Originally Posted by SADIA SHAFIQ

This is a story of married life .if women is so special then here and every where she is going to complain ....

Infact women consider herself so special and lement the negligence of her sposue .tHE ABOVE [OST IS THE SCHEDULE OF WOMEN ROUTINE but i found no speciality in it

I wonder you have en-countered only the amrried life and their future... so the specilaity of women rotate around these circles..

I have seen men ,in single-parent family acting as father as well as mother too.one should count specilaty of men here..

women love in life and sincerity can`t be denied and that is the specilaity of women . I want to focus on men speciality in order to enlightened the role of women .this would widenned the scope of discussion.

"the message today in mobile circulated women are wi-fi where men are blue tooth "

read it carefully, it's not only about married women and appreciating women doesn't mean that we are denying the status or importance of men...they are no doubt equally able to be appreciated.But the specialty lies in the fact that men are already very well received by the society and their work is always recognized by everyone, but women should be exclusively appreciated for their qualities. I hope I have cleared my point.

SADIA SHAFIQ · #42 Thursday, October 13, 2011

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Originally Posted by mano g

read it carefully, it's not only about married women and appreciating women doesn't mean that we are denying the status or importance of men...they are no doubt equally able to be appreciated.But the specialty lies in the fact that men are already very well received by the society and their work is always recognized by everyone, but women should be exclusively appreciated for their qualities. I hope I have cleared my point.

well ,in these days men status has been denied ..do you know it has been researched most of the men want to be a women and with mediacal surgery they are converted into females .i have seen in dramsa where men as well as "khaja siri" are passionate to become a women .tell me how many women disgiuised as men..so your assuption is not well ,suited to cosmoploition cities ..hmm you can say ,women have been victimized in villages

Shooting Star · #43 Thursday, October 13, 2011

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Originally Posted by SADIA SHAFIQ

well ,in these days men status has been denied ..do you know it has been researched most of the men want to be a women and with mediacal surgery they are converted into females .i have seen in dramsa where men as well as "khaja siri" are passionate to become a women .tell me how many women disgiuised as men..so your assuption is not well ,suited to cosmoploition cities ..hmm you can say ,women have been victimized in villages

They are not "Passionate" because they are not getting their rights.
They have different reasons for it.

You know,such things are "in"nowadays.

mano g · #44 Thursday, October 13, 2011

hahaha interesting.....but you know what many educated men still have a backward mind and they want to suppress women no matter how much they contribute in house. So it's not my assumption, but a bitter reality Sadia.

Gulrukh · #45 Thursday, October 13, 2011

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Originally Posted by SADIA SHAFIQ

I have seen men ,in single-parent family acting as father as well as mother too.one should count specilaty of men here..[/B[/COLOR]

You are right here....and I think its tough job for these type of person like single mother n just father to manage it on their own but they do this n I think its heroic and extraordinary on their part though I wish ke aisa kisi key saath bhi na ho...You know being alone etc etc...Its hard..

Faseeh Muhammad · #46 Thursday, October 13, 2011

Why women are so Special?

O wild, dark flower of woman,
Deep rose of my desire,
An Eastern wizard made you,
Of earth and stars and fire.

- C. G. D Robers
The Rose of My Desire

On Issue of Job....

Women or girl, in my opinion should think first what she is going to do. I mean not only other members of the family but also she should think objectively and seriously regarding his future. Factors that are deceived here are the family background, type of education she has acquired, inclination of her life-partner, post-marriage issues.

Family Back Ground matters a lot when a girl is trying to justify her position to work/not to work. If a girl belongs to a conservative family where it is against the norm to work outside then it might create a problem. In such a situation she should not abandon the entrepreneurial or innovative character of hers; rather stream line it and use it alternately. This will distinguish her from rest of the girls/women/housewives around.

It also depends on what type of life-partner she gets after marriage. For few, working outside for a girl who holds a professional degree like MBBS, BE or MBA is not an issue. Let her work, for she has done as much hard work to acquire the qualification as did he. For rest, it weighs more to give time to family.

Some time even the family members or husband have no objection on a women working outside after professional/non professional degree and women is also eager to work but her dream remains unfulfilled because there is no one to look after kids!! (If not opted for combined family). Hence it is a mixture of issues.

For some couples the first and foremost demand from a girl becomes that she will continue her job after marriage. Hence it is advisable (for boys/man) to discuss and finalize such issues before one takes final decision; if one (she) is so ambitious about her future to avoid disappointment.

The cost of working in an office must be weighted against what can be lost while your partner (she) is not at home looking after ones (her) kids or doing house hold work that can add more value to the married life. We often find women busy in social work and their children in kindergartens, which for sure is not an ideal approach to address the problem.

Intelligent (girls/women) are those who understand the circumstances and decides on their basis what should they opt for and respected should be the man who have empathy for what the women/girls (in what ever relationship she is in with him) feels and behave likewise.

mano g · #47 Thursday, October 13, 2011

a comprehensive and sensible comment....good

usmanamjad87 · #48 Friday, October 14, 2011

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Originally Posted by SADIA SHAFIQ

well ,in these days men status has been denied ..do you know it has been researched most of the men want to be a women and with mediacal surgery they are converted into females .i have seen in dramsa where men as well as "khaja siri" are passionate to become a women .tell me how many women disgiuised as men..so your assuption is not well ,suited to cosmoploition cities ..hmm you can say ,women have been victimized in villages

Agree to what Sadia said that now a days in the name of women rights, rights of men are getting ruined, and life of men is also full of struggle. Women works or do something as a desire or luxury, men have to do it as a need whether he want or not.

Agree to mano too that many men still being educated are backward minded and dont accept women rights. But I think majority from educated class is now better and understands there responsibilities.

mano g · #49 Friday, October 14, 2011

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Originally Posted by usmanamjad87

Agree to what Sadia said that now a days in the name of women rights, rights of men are getting ruined, and life of men is also full of struggle. Women works or do something as a desire or luxury, men have to do it as a need whether he want or not.

I think such kind of women are very few, who have some male-like traits of dominance

Otherwise sensible women have an idea that family life is their top most priority, Musharraf's policies of women empowerment proved to be fatal in the real sense, because after that a few women thought that they are just like men and they should get all the jobs in the public as well as private sector, I think this kind of mentality has created a job vacuum for many educated men. Other that that some organizations hire maximum women to increase the cosmetic value of their office environment....so these are some bitter facts, we all know well...

Faseeh Muhammad · #50 Friday, October 14, 2011

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Originally Posted by mano g....that some organizations hire maximum women to increase the cosmetic value of their office environment....

Such companies actually exploit the femininity of women. Most of the women can easily sense this exploitation besides the unjust that is done to man with similar qualification for the sake of so called "improving behavior & working environment" in offices.

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