Originally Posted by lizaaudacious

yeah...its not a big deal for a girl ...a girl really feels happy to perform all that very SOCIAL and RELIGIOUS responsibilities..

Originally Posted by Samina Malik

Come on,its not necessary to use this degree outside the home only,At home,one can have so many opportunities to use that degree.

Originally Posted by samreenhassan

for example?
either u do job while staying at home, online stuff etc , or out door , it demand equal time .

Originally Posted by mehwish islam

very well said mano but boys never understand n appreciate their wives in fact they criticized them throughout the life.

Originally Posted by Farrah Zafar

Very well depiction.Ah !

@all I'm in favour of job either one needs it or not ! After taking exam of C.S.S,I spent almost 6 months at home and it was worst feeling to sit idle when I had enough talent to use but at right place.These days I'm doing internship and I'm very satisfied that I'm spending life with a purpose;I share knowledge and I learn everyday and most of all I have social circle to communicate.
Yes I'm not in favour of job after marriage if your spouse doesn't allow you or your children get neglect .But if there isn't either of reasons,one should use her talents and energy at a platform which may give her satisfaction but may not overwhelm and over burden her domestic life.

Proud to be a lady who can equally contribute for her society as a man does !

Originally Posted by lizaaudacious

but why should we take pain?if we dont need it,then we should not take this load of work.men are supposed to do the task ,they are supposed to be the bread earners ,so let them be...simple....its their social and religious obligation,so stay calm and enjoy life.

Originally Posted by mano g

This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.



Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....